“The Opposite is True is a work of art.”
~Dr. Philip Zimbardo, Stanford University Professor Emeritus of Psychology
“Critique: Exceptionally well written, organized and presented, The Opposite is True: Discover Your Unexpected Enemies, Allies, and Purpose Through the Eyes of CounterIntuitive Psychology is an extraordinarily inspiring and unreservedly recommended pick for personal, professional, community, and college/university library Popular Psychology and Self-Help/Self-Improvement collections.”
This is an important book, a commonsense—and previously unexpored—means of becoming your best self while meeting others half way and forging common ground. By exploring the axis of empathy, humility, and wisdom, it presents practical strategies for delimiting your personal horizons, strategies that are employed to our benefit or ignored at our peril.
Reading The Opposite is True by Efren Delgado was an eye-opening and transformative experience. As someone who has always been hard on themselves for their imperfections, this book offered a refreshing perspective on how to embrace and harness these so-called flaws. Delgado, with his extensive background in the FBI and psychology, brings a unique and authoritative voice to the topic. It’s not just a book; it’s a practical guide to transforming life’s challenges into opportunities for growth and success. I highly recommend it to anyone seeking clarity and actionable wisdom in their personal and professional lives. The Opposite is True is a masterclass in understanding and leveraging the paradoxical truths of our existence for genuine success. Plus, if you have the chance, search for Efren on podcasts because he is a wonderful and articulate guest as well!
Wow, Efren, I feel like I just took a graduate course in everthing I never learned in school!
Efren’s open vulnerability expands beyond the academic world and invites you to participate in his gritty experiences. His depictions of other notable lives offer applicable demonstrations of how and why we should all live more deliberately. He does not hold anything back. And every theory he offers, including “The Opposite is True,” is corroborated by his own visceral admissions and unexpected exchanges with deviants, their victims, or by his use of history, allegory, and scientific principles to take you on a spiritual journey to motivating, yet practical, enlightenment.
The Opposite is True, yes. But this is but one of many paradoxes he exposes throughout his text that will leave you reflecting on your past, digesting your “Now,” and contemplating the gaping wide door of your unique future.

